Should you talk to your partner about your suspicions when you think they are sneaking around?

Should you talk to your partner about your suspicions when you think they are sneaking around?
It's how and when you address it. Not accusatory and NOT when your in a fight which you may have started in order to bring it up.
If you think your partner is keeping something from you and it's eating away at you, then just come out and ask. Not easy I know, but you have no choice. Otherwise you will be wondering, pre-occupied and worse planning on ways of catching him or her. This is no way to live and no way to be in a relationship.

If you have a hunch that something with another person is going on behind your back, the fear that you are being made a fool of or even worse that your partner has feelings for someone else is consuming. In a calm mature way ask, "Can we talk" If the time is good for both of you then ask, "Are there things in this relationship that you need are not getting from me?" What you want to do is repair your relationship, if both of you feel good about each other, there is no room for anyone else." Start with this tactic. and see where it goes. You have time to assess and repair. No one is running off into the sunset. So don't blow it by being impatient.maintain the emotion.
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