WHAT IS SEXY?
When you look at him, is there a certain glint that turns you on? When you look at her and the way she giggles makes your insides flutter?
Isn't it a real turn on when the two of you find each other so irresistible? Keep it that way. The secret is maintaining the respect and integrity of the relationship.
When contempt builds up, hurts are piling on top of hurts, then guarantee the bedroom will get colder than a witches you know what.
How to keep the contempt from building? Shut up, bite that lip that use to turn him on. Walk away before you say something hurtful! Instead of communicating negative criticisms, communicate statements like, " I'm upset with you right now so give me some space, or I don't understand why you act like that, so help me to better understand you."
IN keeping the sex and the flame hot....avoid the ugly, talk don't shame or condemn. This is NOT sexy!
Make love Not War Baby!
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