Our book is just about completed. Soon you will be on your way to Happily Ever After
As I read through I am very excited for the readers who buy this book. It has so much insight into what really goes into a relationship and how it can screw up or how it can succeed. We are going to see a drop in divorce which keeps us to our word of waging war on divorce. Maybe mediation won't be about separating assets but negotiating successful marriages.
Stay in touch so you will know when OUR book is out and ready for YOU
GO to our websites:www.mediationandcounseling.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow, www.danagreco.com
Friday, January 31, 2014
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
LIVING TOGETHER YET?
Should you live together or live apart? How do you know if it's time to
move into together? Financial savings should not be the reason, unless you also
accept that the relationship can end up with you both as roommates paying your share.
Moving into together can have its pros and cons. This is where you both should make a list and be honest.
For example, if you have a need for personal time, then tell him or her. Sitting on your bed or on the couch with a book, watching TV or staring at your laptop means, "I like to be alone for a bit". That's perfectly normal and acceptable, what wouldn't be fair is if you never shared that vital piece of information. Then when you are overwhelmed with too much together time suddenly your behavior changes, to the negative.
Moving into together can have its pros and cons. This is where you both should make a list and be honest.
For example, if you have a need for personal time, then tell him or her. Sitting on your bed or on the couch with a book, watching TV or staring at your laptop means, "I like to be alone for a bit". That's perfectly normal and acceptable, what wouldn't be fair is if you never shared that vital piece of information. Then when you are overwhelmed with too much together time suddenly your behavior changes, to the negative.
Each of you may have a different perspective of what is shared time, living together time, alone time, etc. If one of you works in the home, it doesn't mean that when your finished for the day you are ready to be social. Yet, the partner who is home also, is.
Living together can add excitement and more passion or be a disaster. Setting boundaries and discussing them will make an adjustment a pleasant one.
www.mediationandcounselng.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow.com
Living together can add excitement and more passion or be a disaster. Setting boundaries and discussing them will make an adjustment a pleasant one.
www.mediationandcounselng.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow.com
Monday, January 20, 2014
BOOK IS FINISHED
We would like to take this day to announce we have finally completed our book. HAPPY TODAY DIVORCED TOMORROW? Paving the way to Happily Ever After.
Don and I have written a unique and informational book. He wrote his version and I wrote mine.
we both offer personal insight from our personal experiences of divorce, he being divorced twice and I as a child of a bitter divorce. and that's the intro, the rest of the book are resources, tools and inspiration on how to make YOUR relationship the very best it can be. We hope you will read it when it hits the books stores.
It's the ONLY relationship book you will ever need.
Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow FB page
www.danagreco.com
www.mediationandcounseling.com
Don and I have written a unique and informational book. He wrote his version and I wrote mine.
we both offer personal insight from our personal experiences of divorce, he being divorced twice and I as a child of a bitter divorce. and that's the intro, the rest of the book are resources, tools and inspiration on how to make YOUR relationship the very best it can be. We hope you will read it when it hits the books stores.
It's the ONLY relationship book you will ever need.
Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow FB page
www.danagreco.com
www.mediationandcounseling.com
Thursday, January 16, 2014
SEX TONE
Who sets the tone for intimacy in your relationship? Is it him, because he is a man and needs to have his 72 hour sex cycle satisfied? Or is it her who feels lonely or rejected and needs to cuddle?
What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
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What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
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Monday, January 13, 2014
DIVORCE CORP. THE FILM
The documentary Divorce Corp. Scared the daylights out of me.It was produced the National Parents Organization. Divorce is not a billion dollar industry for saving families. All I can urge and not strongly enough is to STAY OUT OF THE COURTS! PLEASE I'm sure the judges and attorneys believe they they are following the law and constitution and they have every right to their practice and ethics, just make sure you are not a statistic that gets sucked into it.
MEDIATE!
Watch the film if you don't believe me. I had nightmares.Even if you are contemplating divorce and you don't think you can sit with the ex and mediate a negotiation then find a mediator/counselor/therapist we are out there and we keep the session civil, and support you both.
Look at our websites and find someone in your area
www.mediationandcounseling.com, www.danagreco.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
MEDIATE!
Watch the film if you don't believe me. I had nightmares.Even if you are contemplating divorce and you don't think you can sit with the ex and mediate a negotiation then find a mediator/counselor/therapist we are out there and we keep the session civil, and support you both.
Look at our websites and find someone in your area
www.mediationandcounseling.com, www.danagreco.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
Saturday, January 11, 2014
JUST SAY IT
There are a lot of things that I get suspicious of. Not that I'm paranoid, but when it comes to relationships I have learned from experience and practicing, that many do not mean what they say. They may wish it, but no follow through. When you hold yourself accountable that is integrity, are you also holding your partner accountable? Don't allow him or her to slip by and you may excuses for them. If they stand for something, if they say something, if they believe in something and have expressed as though it is their principle then YOU make sure you SEE it in action. Too often people say things for effect, My motto is, "talking lessen the act of doing". If by talking about it gets the attention or reaction form others, often the follow through dies,why should they follow through , the proposal received the applause already, be careful not to fall into this trap, If your partner says they will do something, then it only counts when it's DONE.
www.mediationandcounseling.com www.danagreco.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
www.mediationandcounseling.com www.danagreco.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
Friday, January 10, 2014
Will You LOVE again?
Many people who are contemplating divorce often worry that they may never find love again. Trust me YOU DO, it doesn't mean you find the healthy love but if you are a relationship type person chances are you will be in a relationship again.
For you who likes being in a relationship, you will or might be solo for a bit maybe a few months, a year, maybe a few weeks. The good news is you will seek out and find. Be careful of the REBOUND
Just make sure this time or at least try to observe and assess flags of the past and flags of the future.
Where you see that many flags should only be seen in front of THE UNITED NATIONS.
www. mediationandcounseling.com www.danagreco.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
Many people who are contemplating divorce often worry that they may never find love again. Trust me YOU DO, it doesn't mean you find the healthy love but if you are a relationship type person chances are you will be in a relationship again.
For you who likes being in a relationship, you will or might be solo for a bit maybe a few months, a year, maybe a few weeks. The good news is you will seek out and find. Be careful of the REBOUND
Just make sure this time or at least try to observe and assess flags of the past and flags of the future.
Where you see that many flags should only be seen in front of THE UNITED NATIONS.
www. mediationandcounseling.com www.danagreco.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
Tuesday, January 7, 2014
CHEATING HEARTS
As mentioned about why men cheat, there are reasons why Women cheat. This information I found to be interesting, as I did my research. They are not necessarily the same reasons why men cheat, so we can't lump cheating into one big lumps sum of betrayal.
1. Women get close very easily
2 we are emotional sponges.
3. we are progressive, we move fast,
4 accustomed to the dangers of drama and excitement around relational drama.
5.we can fall out of love quickly and decide we no longer like our mate.
6.women cheat when they are emotionally vulnerable
7. women gravitate toward men who make them feel good
That's enough for now, but there's more.
For more info go to our websitewww.mediationandcounseling.com find us on facebook www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
1. Women get close very easily
2 we are emotional sponges.
3. we are progressive, we move fast,
4 accustomed to the dangers of drama and excitement around relational drama.
5.we can fall out of love quickly and decide we no longer like our mate.
6.women cheat when they are emotionally vulnerable
7. women gravitate toward men who make them feel good
That's enough for now, but there's more.
For more info go to our websitewww.mediationandcounseling.com find us on facebook www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
Sunday, January 5, 2014
CHEATERS
What are the characteristics of a man who CHEATS?
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
Thursday, January 2, 2014
THIRD PARTY-Your relationship
With the new year and new hope we as believers in New Beginnings want to mention that relationships are the most difficult journey to be on. Each of us must give up a piece of our selves if not a lot of ourselves in order to remain in a healthy environment. Some find this really difficult and some find this easy. Me, personally, I am challenged, I am becoming more set in my ways and it's harder for me to be flexible over things, events, ideas and concepts that don't appeal to me, yet I know that the outcome is worth it.
How about you? Do you truly appreciate what you have in your relationship? Are you willing to make the necessary sacrifices in order to meet your partner half way. I tell couples there are three of you not two. There's you, your partner, and the relationship. Investing in the relationship is when you don't want to do something or your partner doesn't but for the sake of the "relationship" it must get done, there must be an investment in the relationship, otherwise it will end up an empty account. Nothing.
If you know you have a good thing, then keep depositing into the relationship account, if you both make investments, sound and honest, then the account will grow and give you a wonderful, fulfilling, return, and then enjoy your abundance.
click on the link and view our list for the upcoming year, resources meet up group, support groups and more about the work we are doing, https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/?shva=1#inbox/14350a50bb4f610f
How about you? Do you truly appreciate what you have in your relationship? Are you willing to make the necessary sacrifices in order to meet your partner half way. I tell couples there are three of you not two. There's you, your partner, and the relationship. Investing in the relationship is when you don't want to do something or your partner doesn't but for the sake of the "relationship" it must get done, there must be an investment in the relationship, otherwise it will end up an empty account. Nothing.
If you know you have a good thing, then keep depositing into the relationship account, if you both make investments, sound and honest, then the account will grow and give you a wonderful, fulfilling, return, and then enjoy your abundance.
click on the link and view our list for the upcoming year, resources meet up group, support groups and more about the work we are doing, https://mail.google.com/mail/u/0/?shva=1#inbox/14350a50bb4f610f
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