Are the Signs that your marriage may be over
two of you bickering or fighting over the same unresolved issues?
- Do you find that your spouse annoys you; it’s frustrating to talk to him or her.?
- Do you worry that the fights may escalate into physical or they have already?
- Do you feel hopeless in thinking you can’t get the love or passion back?
- When you argue do you fight to hurt the other person’s feelings?
- How long has it been since you enjoyed each other’s company, and felt really connected?
- Are you still sexually attracted? Is it love-making or just sex?
- Does your spouse criticize, you or put you down, make jokes at your expense in front of others, then tell you are just being too sensitive?
- Do you envision co-parenting your children in separate households?
- Do your values and goals clash, do you feel one has out grown the other and is more interested in venturing out alone?
- Can you still be flexible on important issues?
- Have you or your spouse been unfaithful?
- Are you determined to be happy again and believe that you can have a new relationship that brings joy and satisfaction, and this marriage is not it anymore?
- When you look at your spouse and realize it’s over can you be sad and grasp the idea that it’s over?
- Do you have a plan if you do divorce? Are you willing to make financial sacrifices for the sake of the children and yourself?
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