There are a lot of things that I get suspicious of. Not that I'm paranoid, but when it comes to relationships I have learned from experience and practicing, that many do not mean what they say. They may wish it, but no follow through. When you hold yourself accountable that is integrity, are you also holding your partner accountable? Don't allow him or her to slip by and you may excuses for them. If they stand for something, if they say something, if they believe in something and have expressed as though it is their principle then YOU make sure you SEE it in action. Too often people say things for effect, My motto is, "talking lessen the act of doing". If by talking about it gets the attention or reaction form others, often the follow through dies,why should they follow through , the proposal received the applause already, be careful not to fall into this trap, If your partner says they will do something, then it only counts when it's DONE.
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