Friday, November 15, 2013

Are you at all interested in Evolving with your partner?

Most couples in their relationship would say "yes of course", but that's not what we see or hear when it comes down to it.

So let's back up.

Many couples get together and form their relationship on the things they have in common, that's a start but that is not where it should stay.  Couples tend to be comfortable with who they are and stay stagnant, but what if, just WHAT IF, you both encouraged each other to reach a higher, deeper, more elaborate lifestyle and we don't mean financially. (Of course that can be a bonus but not necessarily the goal)  What we really mean is for the two of you to encourage each other to be richer in spirit, moral, intellect, health, and so on.  

Relationships are about growth.

In addition to being supportive in career and education, if you are still in school or still building up the the career that you are driven towards, what about  the other areas in your full existence.  Do each of you recommend books to one another that are of substance, does one of you maintain a health regiment, like the gym or sports that keeps you fit?  Can you make this a team effort between the two of you? 

I'm sorry, but grabbing the remote and your loved one to veg on the couch for another weekly episode of Dancing with the Stars, should make you think twice about what you are really about as a couple.  You could be taking your butt and your loved one to a dance class. If your too rusty, then go on line, practice off of YouTube and then sign up.  Being together means bringing each other to a higher ground and developing yourselves.  In five years or more, you both will be  stronger and smarter individuals than you were when you met.  

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