BREAK OUT OF THOSE CHAINS THAT BIND YOU

BREAK OUT OF THOSE CHAINS THAT BIND YOU

Take accountability for your actions in the relationship that has ended. As mediators we meet with couples who enslave themselves and tether themselves to their ex. Both are guilty of entrapping and oppressing themselves either by excessive child support, visitation deprivation, and the like. Brooding over what was and what is post-divorce settlement.

Don't  let this generational mindset maintain a victim mentality and don't pass it on to your off spring? As long as we say we won't be victims and fight back we are still giving power to the superior rulers that tie our hands and tape our mouths. By addressing yourself as a victim you are then a victim, plain and simple.

If you are fighting the courts, petitioning to judges because you feel you deserve more, or feel mistreated then it isn't the court or the ex that will set you free.  Don't you realize the system holds you hostage? Stand strong in your independence from the court system. If you are making your ex pay and you have a shared parenting agreement, then you my dear are a slave. Break out of the chains that bind you, stand tall and firmly on the ground and make your own way.  If your ex won't contribute to the basic needs of his or her child, then it is their downfall by which this should make you want to clear yourself of any contamination of such despicable existence, and remove yourself mind, body and soul. 

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