Is it nice to tell your partner that there are plenty of fish in the sea for you and that you do not need him, or he better shape up? Do you think that helps the relationship at all? No, and you know it. So why do it? It only pushes him away, and do you know why it pushes him away? Or pushes her away? because it is insulting and degrading. So stop hurting you partner by telling him " If you don't somebody else will" A great line from Bette Davis in Of Human Bondage. Bottom line, if you want your partner to pay attention, then tell him or her that "even though we fight and you annoy me, I wouldn't want to be with anyone else."
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