We went down to the village last night and interviewed several couples asking them what they thought was the most important value in a relationship and what would keep the relationship sustained and strong.
The first couple looked at each other and having given it some thought both, well, she said and he agreed, although he seemed a bit hesitant, when she blurted out "Trust". He nodded his head, and said, "Yeah, trust.
Another couple married 33 years, admitted they never thought about. His answer was "fear" she said they take it day by day and although they have had rough spots along the way, ultimately, they feel it's respecting each others opinion that has gotten them this far.
Most of the other couples we spoke to all agreed trust, honesty, and flexibility are the key factors.
And yes these are, had we had the opportunity to talk with them longer, the values such as money, sex and family would have sparked greater conversation.
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