As part of this next group of Blogs We would like to address the lack of desire that occurs in a marriage. We see this in our practice quite often. The truth is that one partner truly wishes the relationship was what it once was. You remember, the laughing, the closeness, that no matter what each other was thinking, it was good it was accepted and it all made sense and you could laugh about it. Not like now, when everything he says or she says, is annoying, stupid, or nails on a chalkboard. This adverse effect has much to do with your disappointment about the loss of your love.
Tell each other how sad you are about the change in your relationship. In early years you would have been able to say how you felt. Take a baby step and gently tell your partner how you feel. without blame, stick to your feelings, and try to be empathetic. Just say " I miss the old days when we were really great with each other" Then walk away nicely! join us on FB www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow
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