With gift giving season how do you feel about spending on your loved one? Do you and your partner splurge on each other? Or do you share a gift, meaning that you buy something or do something together?
I hope you don't just buy him another tie or gloves or buy her earrings (unless their diamonds!) But instead, you both talk about something to do or have that you wouldn't normally do the rest of the year.
Even a weekend away or a Broadway show can be a special gift if this isn't the norm. What about taking in a lecture, or a cooking class together?
If you want him to unwrap something under the tree, then may be that can be you. Or if she likes a little holiday romance, snuggle up to her a little longer in the morning or make her breakfast in bed.
So it's not about the expensive gifts it's the creativity and thought behind them that say "I know you, and you have been VERY GOOD this year."
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