| What Relationship Suits You? Are you a Mother/Wife? Husband/Father? Is there a distinct difference between being a Husband and a Father or a Mother vs a Wife? If one suits you more isn't it important to recognize the difference?
Many individuals choose to do both but with #ConsciousCoupling we want you to recognize and choose what is right for you, not what was right to your parents. In modern marriage and the era we are in, many are choosing one over the other depending on what feels right. The actor Mathew McConaughey has three children, something like that, I'm not as a much a fan. However in the recent news, the mother of his children gave him an ultimatum to marry her.
Well, he hasn't wanted to marry but he has wanted to father children. Those of us who are not in the spotlight may have the same feelings. In #ConciousCoupling, it's OK to be honest with yourself as to what is the best fit for you.
Familial love is about sharing your love and a family way, connecting and bonding over caretaking, guiding, protection, and providing as a parent.
Romantic love is about sharing your love with an equal partner, companionship, shared interests and values. If both of these resonate for you then marriage and children may be your better choice. If only one resonates for you then choose the best fit and disregard the other but be honest with your mate about how you feel.
While making this decision, it's also important to understand the root cause of this choice, perhaps stemming from your own family of origin and its influence on you as an adult. It is best to explore the root just in case your decision is rooted in hurt, disillusionment, etc. having a barrier doesn't necessarily make for solid decision -making when #ConciousCoupling. |
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