| How To Get What You Want In order to get what you want from a relationship you need to be able to speak up. Sitting back and letting your partner try and figure out what you're looking for is never going to get you anywhere and more than often is going to end in a fight. Sometimes it seems that men are just looking for the woman with the perfect skin, hair, and nails, and the hourglass, ideal child-bearing figure but a successful and meaningful relationship is important to them. They want women who could be good mothers, wives, and friends. Typically, if a man had a good relationship with their mother they tend to gravitate towards women who have the same nurturing quality as their mothers. However, not ALL men are looking for that and it's important to know how to separate out the good ones from the bad ones. Here are four sets of traits that can help you get what you want from your relationship- 1) Firm & Faithful- you need to have a strong backbone and be able to keep things organized while not being too controlling or strict. You need to be able to say things how they are and not be afraid to share your feelings. You need to be faithful not only in terms of affairs, but in terms of keeping your partner's secrets to yourself. You must be able to hold your partner accountable for their actions while showing no judgment and accepting their flaws. 2) Passionate & Practical- you need to show that you're committed to the relationship by showing that you're willing to keep your man happy. You don't always need to keep yourself prim and proper but it's important that you show you enjoy feeling good about yourself. You need to be practical and find a balance between your career and home. Both should be important to you and at times you're going to need to multi-task. 3) Certain & Cooking- it's important that you have a strong sense of self and know that a man is never going to define who you are. You must take pride in who you are and accept that sometimes there are things that you need to take on by yourself. It's not secret that the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, but that doesn't mean you have to be a phenomenal cook or a typical "southern gal" but you should have proper etiquette and pride in keeping the home. 4) Determined & Delicate- you should never be afraid to say what you mean and to mean what you say. There is no shame in being a strong woman, and being one does not mean that you are not feminine. You should never let a man walk all over you or play games with your heart. In life, it will happen, but you need to be strong enough to tell him to stop and to stand up for yourself even if it means the end of the relationship. |
| OUR WAR ON DIVORCE We are providing the tools and techniques to keep your relationship from heading down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others. We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path. Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve. Soul mates are made and not found. |
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