| Jealousy Is OK Just Don't Overdo It Jealousy can come in many forms by both men and women. There are times when jealousy is appropriate and when it is inappropriate. Rage can be a result of anger you felt because of jealousy that was never dealt with or talked about with your partner. Here at Conscious Coupling we've realized that jealousy stems from trust issues. If you are able to go into a relationship and feel confident that your partner will remain faithful until proven wrong (hopefully you won't be) then you should consider yourself lucky. However, many people go into a relationship having been hurt before - by either a romantic partner, parent, or a friend - and as a result are not one-hundred percent comfortable completely trusting anyone but themselves. If you're one of those people, that's okay, we're here to help you weed out those you can trust. The good type of jealousy comes from the type of relationship where you see your partner as such a great person that you feel threatened other people are going to see them as the same and want them. Most jealous people act that way in every relationship no matter whom they're dating. Conscious Coupling believes that the best way to avoid becoming jealous is to establish a higher level of self-esteem. If you feel good about yourself you'll also feel that you have no reason to worry because why would your partner want to be with someone who isn't you? However, jealousy can turn very ugly. For example, say your partner slowly starts putting more work into their appearance for work just to feel better about themselves. If you're a naturally jealous person you can take this action as a sign that there is someone at work they are trying to impress. Since you believe so strongly that there is someone no matter how many times your partner says there isn't you won't believe them. Keep this up long enough you could quite possibly lead the relationship right to its end. The moral of the story is that jealousy isn't a good look on anyone. |
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