Breaking Down T-R-U-S-T As a component of #ConsciousCoupling you must know what the basis of trust really is. In fact, we've developed a way to break it down into 5 parts - T, R, U, S, & T.
The time . A relationship doesn't just start; it takes a process to begin a serious and trustworthy relationship. You get to know each other, the good and the bad, and slowly begin to trust each other and continue doing so providing your partner doesn't give you reason not to. Additionally, this means that you must devote time to building and strengthening the relationship.
The reliability . A big part of #ConsciousCoupling is being aware of the fact that a relationship is meant to grow with the help of both people. If one of you does not feel like the other is there for you to lean on them when you need it then the relationship isn't reliable.
The understanding. This part goes hand in hand with unconditional love - the kind of love ideal in a strong relationship. This type of love ensures that if your partner has a trait about them that you don't like that you can look past that and understand that it is just part of them. You must be able to accept each other's flaws to get anywhere in your relationship.
The sacrifice. Relationships are about sacrifice and that is no secret. Relationships in which you each sacrifice something for the good of the relationship, such as one person giving up going out multiple nights a week to spend more time with their partner, are the ones in which a higher, stronger level of trust develops.
The final part, the thankfulness . You must be thankful for the love of your partner, you can't take it for granted. Your partner is not obligated to stay by your side through everything or to love you forever, but if you trust them and they trust you then they will do those things because they desire to. You need to recognize each other's efforts to keeping the relationship strong.By thinking and acting out these steps you can trust that your relationship will be built on trust. |
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