| Love Versus Trust In every successful relationship, there is love and trust. But which is more important? #ConsciousCoupling believes that trust is more important because how can you love someone you trust? And how can you continue loving someone once the trust between the two of you has been broken? Love doesn't have an obligation to be reciprocated, but trust does. It is very possible to love someone who does not love you back, whether or not the love was never reciprocated or is no longer reciprocated. Someone doesn't necessarily have to act in a certain way for you to love him or her, no matter what the type of love is. Take a pair of sisters for example who always fight and don't trust each other - there is still a sisterly love between them that won't ever break. If you do however love someone who feels the same way about you then consider yourself lucky, it's a wonderful feeling. Trust on the other hand brings a feeling that it must be reciprocated. #ConsciousCoupling feels that a relationship can't function properly without a level of trust. If you feel that you're worried for your partner to be without you for a night or a few days because they'll do something they wouldn't do in front of you then you clearly do not trust them. If you don't trust your partner, there is no reason for you to stay in the relationship. So now it's time to differentiate the types of relationships that come from these feelings. #ConsciousCoupling wants you to remember that loving someone whom you trust is almost always more advisable than trusting someone whom you love. The latter can easily lead to disaster because your love for your partner can cloud your judgment and make something such as infidelity seem unimportant because your partner is "sorry and didn't mean it." However, loving someone whom you trust will lead to a successful relationship because you already feel completely confident in that person and how they will treat you. |
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