| #EngaginginGoodConversation As a relationship goes on, it can seem as if you and your partner are having the same conversation over and over again. #ConsciousCoupling urges you to read the rules of "Friends of Good Conversation". The first is that you must conversation to investigate, inform, and understand your partner. Investigating means that you should know about their pasts, their histories, and what they are currently going through and what they hope to accomplish in the future. Investigate their attitude and how they deal with different types of situations. Next, inform them about what is going on in your life and what you want to do with your life, and what you've done in life. If this is all done successfully, you are in a position where you will be able to understand each other and the conversation will flow smoothly and engage both of you. Second, #ConsciousCoupling means that you must find an interest in your partner's interests to talk about with them. Interests change every day as hobbies change and life experiences change. New things are happening every day to be talked about, you just need to make the effort to incorporate those new experiences into your old conversations. From this, you might even find that you have a shared interest you didn't even realize you shared because it never come up in conversation. Pay close attention to what your partner talks about most, research it, and make them happy and bring it up first. Third, you must balance the conversation. You shouldn't be doing all the talking, and neither should your partner. Conversation must flow both ways otherwise you're just talking at your partner or being talked at, and not talked to. We suggest that you have a minimum of 15 hours of undivided attention with your partner each week to make sure the relationship is growing and not weakening. | 
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