When your partner is ignoring you, it is important to figure out why they are doing so and work the problem out. As a part of #ConsciousCoupling it is very necessary to be able to work through your issues with your partner in order to save and strengthen your relationship. In this case, don't just assume that your partner is ignoring you because they are mad at you, there might be a deeper issue that you can't see.
The first step in figuring out why you are being ignored is to assess your own behavior. You must take a good look at the way you have been acting towards and around your partner. Maybe you're acting overprotective and calling and texting way too often and not giving them any space to themselves. Think hard about how often you reach out to your partner and if you see it might be a little more than you think they feel comfortable with, take a step back. Next, try and see things from their perspective and think about what is going on in their life - they might be feeling sick, experiencing a family loss they don't want to talk about, or maybe they are just exhausted from a tough few days or week at work.
From here, take an additional step and and try not to text or call your partner for an entire day. If they don't reach out by the end of the day, ask them what they want from the relationship. If they don't want the same things you do, it might be time to get out of it. If they do reach out to you, ask them up front what is bothering them. Let them know you are here to support them, and if it has something to do with you, you're willing to talk about it.
If the situation gets better and then gets bad again, step up your game. Demand respect from your partner, tell them what you feel you deserve and if they can't give that to you they aren't worth your trouble. Go out with your friends without your partner, show them you have a life outside of them. If they really want you in their life, they'll start making an effort at this point.
Just remember that at the end of the day to always stay happy. If you tell yourself your happy and don't let the struggles get to you, eventually the happiness will come naturally.
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