we all know that children get hurt when their parents divorce, and even though sometimes the relief of their parents no longer fighting in the home is positive. unfortunately, children will forget about the fighting or often heal from the trauma and intensity of the yelling or screaming that went on, and be left with the loss and emptiness of a broken home. As the human condition heals, so do the memories of fighting fade. yet the reality for children is their parents live apart, maybe move on to new relationships and their lives are disrupted with schlepping from home to home, hello to mom good bye to dad, hello to dad goodbye to mon day after day after day
Learn more and go to: www.mediationandcounseling.com and www.danagreco.com
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Monday, March 3, 2014
Thursday, February 27, 2014
If your spouse is GAY
when your dating your man or woman and you suspect he or she may be gay what do you do?
The possibility is that they may be bi-sexual which is most likely. Your relationship may become serious and end up in marriage with children. And like any other marriage it is prone to infidelity if the connection is lost.
Chances are your spouse may turn to another partner either the opposite sex like you or want to explore their homosexual relationship. When this happens their is sometimes a feeling of betrayal not only the infidelity but the betrayal of truth about sexuality. If you suspect that your partner may be gay it is best for them to explore this before the commitment of marriage. Suppressing the truth will only hurt everyone eventually.
www.mediationandcounseling.com and www.danagreco.com to learn more.
The possibility is that they may be bi-sexual which is most likely. Your relationship may become serious and end up in marriage with children. And like any other marriage it is prone to infidelity if the connection is lost.
Chances are your spouse may turn to another partner either the opposite sex like you or want to explore their homosexual relationship. When this happens their is sometimes a feeling of betrayal not only the infidelity but the betrayal of truth about sexuality. If you suspect that your partner may be gay it is best for them to explore this before the commitment of marriage. Suppressing the truth will only hurt everyone eventually.
www.mediationandcounseling.com and www.danagreco.com to learn more.
Friday, January 31, 2014
Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow THE BOOK
Our book is just about completed. Soon you will be on your way to Happily Ever After
As I read through I am very excited for the readers who buy this book. It has so much insight into what really goes into a relationship and how it can screw up or how it can succeed. We are going to see a drop in divorce which keeps us to our word of waging war on divorce. Maybe mediation won't be about separating assets but negotiating successful marriages.
Stay in touch so you will know when OUR book is out and ready for YOU
GO to our websites:www.mediationandcounseling.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow, www.danagreco.com
As I read through I am very excited for the readers who buy this book. It has so much insight into what really goes into a relationship and how it can screw up or how it can succeed. We are going to see a drop in divorce which keeps us to our word of waging war on divorce. Maybe mediation won't be about separating assets but negotiating successful marriages.
Stay in touch so you will know when OUR book is out and ready for YOU
GO to our websites:www.mediationandcounseling.com www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow, www.danagreco.com
Tuesday, January 21, 2014
LIVING TOGETHER YET?
Should you live together or live apart? How do you know if it's time to
move into together? Financial savings should not be the reason, unless you also
accept that the relationship can end up with you both as roommates paying your share.
Moving into together can have its pros and cons. This is where you both should make a list and be honest.
For example, if you have a need for personal time, then tell him or her. Sitting on your bed or on the couch with a book, watching TV or staring at your laptop means, "I like to be alone for a bit". That's perfectly normal and acceptable, what wouldn't be fair is if you never shared that vital piece of information. Then when you are overwhelmed with too much together time suddenly your behavior changes, to the negative.
Moving into together can have its pros and cons. This is where you both should make a list and be honest.
For example, if you have a need for personal time, then tell him or her. Sitting on your bed or on the couch with a book, watching TV or staring at your laptop means, "I like to be alone for a bit". That's perfectly normal and acceptable, what wouldn't be fair is if you never shared that vital piece of information. Then when you are overwhelmed with too much together time suddenly your behavior changes, to the negative.
Each of you may have a different perspective of what is shared time, living together time, alone time, etc. If one of you works in the home, it doesn't mean that when your finished for the day you are ready to be social. Yet, the partner who is home also, is.
Living together can add excitement and more passion or be a disaster. Setting boundaries and discussing them will make an adjustment a pleasant one.
www.mediationandcounselng.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow.com
Living together can add excitement and more passion or be a disaster. Setting boundaries and discussing them will make an adjustment a pleasant one.
www.mediationandcounselng.com, www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow.com
Thursday, January 16, 2014
SEX TONE
Who sets the tone for intimacy in your relationship? Is it him, because he is a man and needs to have his 72 hour sex cycle satisfied? Or is it her who feels lonely or rejected and needs to cuddle?
What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
http://www.meetup.com/philosophical-couples/events/157394342/ JOIN OUR GROUP BECOME A MEMBER
What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
http://www.meetup.com/philosophical-couples/events/157394342/ JOIN OUR GROUP BECOME A MEMBER
Sunday, January 5, 2014
CHEATERS
What are the characteristics of a man who CHEATS?
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com
Saturday, December 28, 2013
BORED with THE Chit Chat
Have you noticed that your repertoire has dwindled in your conversation with your partner? If it isn't about what you're planning to do this weekend, or what happened to your friend Carolyn and her boyfriend, or just moaning about job, latest TV show, subway, money, conversation has become nil? Scary. But is doesn't have to be that way. You MUST, as a couple infuse deep intellectual concepts into your repertoire if you want to keep the stimulation and excitement in your relationship.
Not everyone needs this. Some of you are happy enough, that's fine. But for some couples, at least an individual in the couple feels a yearning for new dialogue, new ways of communicating, infused riveting banter, even if it's once or twice a week. Doesn't have to be constant. There is a need for quiet, mindless time together too. But a balance of both will increase the intimacy and offer another layer of personality that you and your partner can enjoy, get to know, and grow from.
Edmund Husserl 19th century philosopher asks, " Are you willing to sacrifice the dross of conjecture for the pure gold of essential knowledge?"
Join us for our new group only 10 seats available.http://www.meetup.com/philosophical-couples/events/157394342/. join us on FB facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow,
Check out our websites:www.mediationandcounseling.com, www.danagreco.com
Not everyone needs this. Some of you are happy enough, that's fine. But for some couples, at least an individual in the couple feels a yearning for new dialogue, new ways of communicating, infused riveting banter, even if it's once or twice a week. Doesn't have to be constant. There is a need for quiet, mindless time together too. But a balance of both will increase the intimacy and offer another layer of personality that you and your partner can enjoy, get to know, and grow from.
Edmund Husserl 19th century philosopher asks, " Are you willing to sacrifice the dross of conjecture for the pure gold of essential knowledge?"
Join us for our new group only 10 seats available.http://www.meetup.com/philosophical-couples/events/157394342/. join us on FB facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow,
Check out our websites:www.mediationandcounseling.com, www.danagreco.com
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