Balance in relationships vary

Do you know what makes your relationship work? What keeps it balanced/ Giving each other space and freedom or maintaining a daily physical connection? Talking or not talking but be with each other in a mindful spiritual or present state and sharing a movie.
Are you both in need of socialization or do one of you stay in and agree to be apart from social circles
Are one of you the ambitious type while the other is the silent supporter?
What works for you?
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" if you want a man to really commit to you seduce you, chase you, and keep that spark going forever you can't just make him love you, you've got to make him ADDICTED to you ."

 We heard this from a "relationship expert" What do you think? Does addiction mean healthy relationship.
What is being addicted to you partner really mean?
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Does she come with baggage?

Does he come with a host of problems, debts, kids and exes?
Good grief, at the onset of a relationship if you see flags then pay attention. If he is too needy and clings or she is too crabby an easily humorless, then pay attention. These personality traits and histories don't get better, they get more complicated.
If you fall in love with the man and you have to fall in love with the baggage too. AND don't think you are going to rescue him, or save her. Be a friend to yourself first
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BORED with THE Chit Chat

Have you noticed that your repertoire has dwindled in your conversation with your partner? If it isn't about what you're planning to do this weekend, or what happened to your friend Carolyn and her boyfriend, or just moaning about job, latest TV show, subway, money, conversation has become nil? Scary. But is doesn't have to be that way. You MUST, as a couple infuse deep intellectual concepts into your repertoire if you want to keep the stimulation and excitement in your relationship.
Not everyone needs this. Some of you are happy enough, that's fine. But for some couples, at least an individual in the couple feels a yearning for new dialogue, new ways of communicating, infused riveting banter, even if it's once or twice a week. Doesn't have to be constant. There is a need for quiet, mindless time together too. But a balance of both will increase the intimacy and offer another layer of personality that you and your partner can enjoy, get to know, and grow from.
Edmund Husserl 19th century philosopher asks, " Are you willing to sacrifice the dross of conjecture for the pure gold of essential knowledge?"
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WHY YOU WILL BE DIVORCED

DO you know why You will be Divorced?
Because what you think is True Love is really just True LUST.
Real Love doesn't divorce, Love may fight, love may hurt  but all in the name of PASSIONate committed LOVE,  LOVE doesn't discard or Leave or Divorce. LOVE DOESN'T Call Lawyers.
LUST will guarantee leaving, LUST is short lived. LUST Is selfish LUST is one dimensional, it finds fault, it fears being rejected, it's insecure,it's superior, it's inferior, it compares, it criticizes. LUST gets aroused and then quiets down. LOVE perpetuates LOVE is never quiet LOVE never ages, you are as beautiful as the moment you Fell into it. LUST Makes you fat, ugly, boring,mean, bitter. LOVE IS ALWAYS LOVE impenetrable.
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BREAK OUT OF THOSE CHAINS THAT BIND YOU

BREAK OUT OF THOSE CHAINS THAT BIND YOU

Take accountability for your actions in the relationship that has ended. As mediators we meet with couples who enslave themselves and tether themselves to their ex. Both are guilty of entrapping and oppressing themselves either by excessive child support, visitation deprivation, and the like. Brooding over what was and what is post-divorce settlement.

Don't  let this generational mindset maintain a victim mentality and don't pass it on to your off spring? As long as we say we won't be victims and fight back we are still giving power to the superior rulers that tie our hands and tape our mouths. By addressing yourself as a victim you are then a victim, plain and simple.

If you are fighting the courts, petitioning to judges because you feel you deserve more, or feel mistreated then it isn't the court or the ex that will set you free.  Don't you realize the system holds you hostage? Stand strong in your independence from the court system. If you are making your ex pay and you have a shared parenting agreement, then you my dear are a slave. Break out of the chains that bind you, stand tall and firmly on the ground and make your own way.  If your ex won't contribute to the basic needs of his or her child, then it is their downfall by which this should make you want to clear yourself of any contamination of such despicable existence, and remove yourself mind, body and soul. 

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