If your spouse is GAY

when your dating your man or woman and you suspect he or she may be gay what do you do?
The possibility is that they may be bi-sexual which is most likely. Your relationship may become serious and end up in marriage with children. And like any other marriage it is prone to infidelity if the connection is lost.
Chances are your spouse may turn to another partner either the opposite sex like you or want to explore their homosexual relationship. When this happens their is sometimes a feeling of betrayal not only the infidelity but the betrayal of truth about sexuality. If you suspect that your partner may be gay it is best for them to explore this before the commitment of marriage. Suppressing the truth will only hurt everyone eventually.
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" if you want a man to really commit to you seduce you, chase you, and keep that spark going forever you can't just make him love you, you've got to make him ADDICTED to you ."

 We heard this from a "relationship expert" What do you think? Does addiction mean healthy relationship.
What is being addicted to you partner really mean?
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Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow THE BOOK

Our book is just about completed. Soon you will be on your way to Happily Ever After
As I read through I am very excited for the readers who buy this book. It has so much insight into what really goes into a relationship and how it can screw up or how it can succeed. We are going to see a drop in divorce which keeps us to our word of waging war on divorce. Maybe mediation won't be about separating assets but negotiating successful marriages.
Stay in touch so you will know when OUR book is out and ready for YOU

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LIVING TOGETHER YET?

Should you live together or live apart? How do you know if it's time to move into together? Financial savings should not be the reason, unless you also accept that the relationship can end up with you both as roommates paying your share.
Moving into together can have its pros and cons. This is where you both should make a list and be honest.
For example, if you have a need for personal time, then tell him or her. Sitting on your bed or on the couch with a book, watching TV or staring at your laptop means, "I like to be alone for a bit". That's perfectly normal and acceptable, what wouldn't be fair is if you never shared that vital piece of information. Then when you are overwhelmed with too much together time suddenly your behavior changes, to the negative.

Each of you may have a different perspective of what is shared time, living together time, alone time, etc. If one of you works in the home, it doesn't mean that when your finished for the day you are ready to be social. Yet, the partner who is home also, is.
Living together can add excitement and more passion or be a disaster. Setting boundaries and discussing them will make an adjustment a pleasant one.
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BOOK IS FINISHED

We would like to take this day to announce we have finally completed our book. HAPPY TODAY DIVORCED TOMORROW? Paving the way to Happily Ever After.
Don and I have written a unique and informational book. He wrote his version and I wrote mine.
we both offer personal insight from our personal experiences of divorce, he being divorced twice and I as a child of a bitter divorce. and that's the intro, the rest of the book are resources, tools and inspiration on how to make YOUR relationship the very best it can be. We hope you will read it when it hits the books stores.
It's the ONLY relationship book you will ever need.

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SEX TONE

Who sets the tone for intimacy in your relationship? Is it him, because he is a man and needs to have his 72 hour sex cycle satisfied? Or is it her who feels lonely or rejected and needs to cuddle?
What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
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Will You LOVE again?

Many people who are contemplating divorce often worry that they may never find love again. Trust me YOU DO, it doesn't mean you find the healthy love but if you are a relationship type person chances are you will be in a relationship again.
For you who likes being in a relationship, you will or might be solo for a bit maybe a few months, a year, maybe a few weeks. The good news is you will seek out and find. Be careful of the REBOUND
Just make sure this time or at least try to observe and assess flags of the past and flags of the future.
Where you see that many flags should only be seen in front of THE UNITED NATIONS.
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CHEATING HEARTS

As mentioned about why men cheat, there are reasons why Women cheat. This information I found to be interesting, as I did my research. They are not necessarily the same reasons why men cheat, so we can't lump cheating into one big lumps sum of betrayal.
1. Women get close very easily
2 we are emotional sponges.
3. we are progressive, we move fast,
4 accustomed to the dangers of drama and excitement around relational drama.
5.we can fall out of love quickly and decide we no longer like our mate.
6.women cheat when they are emotionally vulnerable
7. women gravitate  toward men who make them feel good
That's enough for now, but there's more.
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CHEATERS

 What are the characteristics of a man who CHEATS?
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com

WILL YOU CHEAT ON YOUR PARTNER?

What keeps you from cheating or betraying your partner? Is it that you hold the relationship you are in sacred? Are you afraid of getting caught? Or is your relationship so satisfying that no one else could be as wonderful or as loving as your partner?
There are many reasons why people cheat.One is the boredom, another is to get through a relationship without having to end it, or you are starved for needs that can't be met and someone comes along and fills that void. There are cheaters because the problems in the relationship are such that cheating is just an alarm to bigger problems that are going on.
Whether it's emotional or physical, stepping outside of the relationship is a cause for reassessment and a sit down with your mate.
If you are so unhappy and you feel you may be vulnerable and  the possibility of hurting the couple-hood you are in, before you go and allow someone else into your private space, (the relationship) then think twice and sit your man or woman down and express how you really feel.
If that other partner doesn't wake up and smell the coffee, you got huge problems. Better get some counseling. any comments? www.facebook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com or read our articles on www.mediationandcounseling.com

WHY YOU WILL BE DIVORCED

DO you know why You will be Divorced?
Because what you think is True Love is really just True LUST.
Real Love doesn't divorce, Love may fight, love may hurt  but all in the name of PASSIONate committed LOVE,  LOVE doesn't discard or Leave or Divorce. LOVE DOESN'T Call Lawyers.
LUST will guarantee leaving, LUST is short lived. LUST Is selfish LUST is one dimensional, it finds fault, it fears being rejected, it's insecure,it's superior, it's inferior, it compares, it criticizes. LUST gets aroused and then quiets down. LOVE perpetuates LOVE is never quiet LOVE never ages, you are as beautiful as the moment you Fell into it. LUST Makes you fat, ugly, boring,mean, bitter. LOVE IS ALWAYS LOVE impenetrable.
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Is there Trust in your relationship?

Trust is the basis of a true partnership, without it there is nothing that keeps you together.
Not only is trust about affairs and infidelity it includes behaviors such as predictability, reliability,saying what you mean, speaking up for what you need, being open and receptive, and saying no for the purpose of self-preservation and self-esteem.
Trusting in yourself as to knowing who you are in the relationship has much to do with the ability to trust your partner in knowing who they are.
Seriously, what is the point if you  have to question your partners intentions, or wonder if what she says will she follow through. When she tells you one thing but does something else, It is a betrayal. And that hurts.
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HOLIDAY FROM HELL

Around the end of the year, many bad marriages find their resting place. She say's by next Christmas "I will not be spending the holiday with this stupid man!", and she means it.So the divorce paper trail begins. This makes for the one holiday that sucks. It's awkward, it's bitter, and the kids are dreading it, because mom and dad can't get through the day without fighting, ruining their Christmas. Bah Hum Bug! You're scrooge, she's scrooge, the holidays this year can't be over soon enough.
This is so sad.
The holidays are for the kids, let's not forget. They have one one childhood and much of  their adulthood will
be defined by this childhood. So suck it up with the Mr. Keep the holiday cheer up, even if it means drinking a couple of extra Eggnogs. Next year it won't be so bad. Make it special for the kids, If they have a Christmas filled with tension and hostility this  will shadow over all the wonderful ones they had in the past.. We know you  both miss the joy of the early Christmases when the Love and the Marriage was good. Be civil and kind to that spouse that despises you now for whatever reason, you can make the Holidays special for you and the kids so try to do your best. It will be noticed.
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Should you talk to your partner about your suspicions when you think they are sneaking around?

Should you talk to your partner about your suspicions when you think they are sneaking around?
It's how and when you address it. Not accusatory and NOT when your in a fight which you may have started in order to bring it up.
If you think your partner is keeping something from you and it's eating away at you, then just come out and ask. Not easy I know, but you have no choice. Otherwise you will be wondering, pre-occupied and worse planning on ways of catching him or her. This is no way to live and no way to be in a relationship.

If you have a hunch that something with another person is going on behind your back, the fear that you are being made a fool of or even worse that your partner has feelings for someone else is consuming. In a calm mature way ask, "Can we talk" If the time is good for both of you then ask, "Are there things in this relationship that you need are not getting from me?" What you want to do is repair your relationship, if both of you feel good about each other, there is no room for anyone else." Start with this tactic. and see where it goes. You have time to assess and repair. No one is running off into the sunset. So don't blow it by being impatient.maintain the emotion.
Look for our book that's coming out soon HAPPY TODAY DIVORCED TOMORROW
Paving the way towards Happily Ever After.
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