If your spouse is GAY

when your dating your man or woman and you suspect he or she may be gay what do you do?
The possibility is that they may be bi-sexual which is most likely. Your relationship may become serious and end up in marriage with children. And like any other marriage it is prone to infidelity if the connection is lost.
Chances are your spouse may turn to another partner either the opposite sex like you or want to explore their homosexual relationship. When this happens their is sometimes a feeling of betrayal not only the infidelity but the betrayal of truth about sexuality. If you suspect that your partner may be gay it is best for them to explore this before the commitment of marriage. Suppressing the truth will only hurt everyone eventually.
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" if you want a man to really commit to you seduce you, chase you, and keep that spark going forever you can't just make him love you, you've got to make him ADDICTED to you ."

 We heard this from a "relationship expert" What do you think? Does addiction mean healthy relationship.
What is being addicted to you partner really mean?
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Einstein was correct!

he said " women marry men and hope they will change, and men marry women hoping they will never change, inevitably both are disappointed" many couples marry and secretly think this very thing. Are you in a relationship that maybe, just maybe there are little personality nuances you would like to see tweeked, enhanced or completely omitted?
our soon to be published book "Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow, paving the way to happily ever after" will cover this and many other topics that will make your relationship work better than ever.
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Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow THE BOOK

Our book is just about completed. Soon you will be on your way to Happily Ever After
As I read through I am very excited for the readers who buy this book. It has so much insight into what really goes into a relationship and how it can screw up or how it can succeed. We are going to see a drop in divorce which keeps us to our word of waging war on divorce. Maybe mediation won't be about separating assets but negotiating successful marriages.
Stay in touch so you will know when OUR book is out and ready for YOU

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BOOK IS FINISHED

We would like to take this day to announce we have finally completed our book. HAPPY TODAY DIVORCED TOMORROW? Paving the way to Happily Ever After.
Don and I have written a unique and informational book. He wrote his version and I wrote mine.
we both offer personal insight from our personal experiences of divorce, he being divorced twice and I as a child of a bitter divorce. and that's the intro, the rest of the book are resources, tools and inspiration on how to make YOUR relationship the very best it can be. We hope you will read it when it hits the books stores.
It's the ONLY relationship book you will ever need.

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SEX TONE

Who sets the tone for intimacy in your relationship? Is it him, because he is a man and needs to have his 72 hour sex cycle satisfied? Or is it her who feels lonely or rejected and needs to cuddle?
What and who initiates the affection in your relationship? Does it include sex and toys and adventure, or is it about love and romance? Is it about both, and if so who suggests what? Or do neither one of you say anything and it remains the same routine. Are you both wanting to enhance, or is just one of you thinking that? And the other is fine with the way it is as long as it is consistent. Well MAKE UP YOUR MIND. If the love and affection and the sex in your relationship can be better and more exciting maybe because one of you took the initiative to do something about it, then instead of thinking your partner is a pervert allow and encourage an upgrade. Go for the GOLD www.danagreco.com www.meditationandcounseling.com
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CHEATING HEARTS

As mentioned about why men cheat, there are reasons why Women cheat. This information I found to be interesting, as I did my research. They are not necessarily the same reasons why men cheat, so we can't lump cheating into one big lumps sum of betrayal.
1. Women get close very easily
2 we are emotional sponges.
3. we are progressive, we move fast,
4 accustomed to the dangers of drama and excitement around relational drama.
5.we can fall out of love quickly and decide we no longer like our mate.
6.women cheat when they are emotionally vulnerable
7. women gravitate  toward men who make them feel good
That's enough for now, but there's more.
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CHEATERS

 What are the characteristics of a man who CHEATS?
Dr Irwin Marcus discovers that cheating isn't only about sex it's about the man's deep-seeded issues, Take a look at his list of personality issues that drive a man to affairs. Do any of these look familiar?
The Adulteen
The Playmate
The Pleasure seeker
The Conquistador
The Sampler
The Independent
The daredevil
The aging Fear
Search for New Spouse
The Troubled Man beyond
If your partner or you recognize these and want to stop, you can, but you need professional help, So DO it and save your marriage.www.mediationandcouseling.com find us on FB faceboook.com/groups/happytodaydivorcedtomorrow or www.danagreco.com

THIRD PARTY-Your relationship

With the new year and new hope we as believers in New Beginnings want to mention that relationships are the most difficult journey to be on. Each of us must give up a piece of our selves if not a lot of ourselves in order to remain in a healthy environment. Some find this really difficult and some find this easy. Me, personally, I am challenged, I am becoming more set in my ways and it's harder for me to be flexible over things, events, ideas and concepts that don't appeal to me, yet I know that the outcome is worth it.
How about you? Do you truly appreciate what you have in your relationship? Are you willing to make the necessary sacrifices in order to meet your partner half way. I tell couples there are three of you not two. There's you, your partner, and the relationship. Investing in the relationship is when you don't want to do something or your partner doesn't but for the sake of the "relationship" it must get done, there must be an investment in the relationship, otherwise it will end up an empty account. Nothing.
If you know you have a good thing, then keep depositing into the relationship account, if you both make investments, sound and honest, then the account will grow and give you a wonderful, fulfilling, return, and then enjoy your abundance.
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BORED with THE Chit Chat

Have you noticed that your repertoire has dwindled in your conversation with your partner? If it isn't about what you're planning to do this weekend, or what happened to your friend Carolyn and her boyfriend, or just moaning about job, latest TV show, subway, money, conversation has become nil? Scary. But is doesn't have to be that way. You MUST, as a couple infuse deep intellectual concepts into your repertoire if you want to keep the stimulation and excitement in your relationship.
Not everyone needs this. Some of you are happy enough, that's fine. But for some couples, at least an individual in the couple feels a yearning for new dialogue, new ways of communicating, infused riveting banter, even if it's once or twice a week. Doesn't have to be constant. There is a need for quiet, mindless time together too. But a balance of both will increase the intimacy and offer another layer of personality that you and your partner can enjoy, get to know, and grow from.
Edmund Husserl 19th century philosopher asks, " Are you willing to sacrifice the dross of conjecture for the pure gold of essential knowledge?"
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