As a woman, can you break out of captivity?

Highlights from Radio Podcast:   Dana and Don discuss the pros and cons of working moms and how this impacts the family dynamic and relationships.   Try to distinguish the feelings of guilt vs feeling bad   Once  the children are in school set goals, become financially independent and allow the family to grow as well, including your husband and the children.    If you don't like the way he handles things or cares for the kids you're in a marriage that is in trouble and you may end up divorced.   More of an incentive to get another degree or get yourself marketable in order to earn your own living     Tips for stay at home moms : Stay close to your working parent friends Stay in touch, real touch Volunteer strategically Keep current Seek out consulting, substitute teaching, part-time, job shares, temporary or shift work Don't quit without a plan   Dual career marriages have benefits because of the increased stimulation in communication, ideas, shared experience and shared household responsibilities.     Children bond with dad while mom is at work, this enriches everyone in the family.   "We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us". -Joseph Campbell        Listen to the Recorded Show "Give us 15 minutes and we'll give you hope for a better relationship"    We are listening and here to help, Dana and Don       OUR WAR ON DIVORCE   We are providing the tools and techniques to keep your relationship from heading down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others. We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path. Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.  Soul mates are made and not found.          Learn More About What We Do: Divorce Mediators and Family Counseling  Non-profit as Family Advocates "HappyToday, Divorced Tomorrow?" Book "Happy Today, Divorced Tomorrow?" FB Group Dana's Individual and Couple's Counseling Dana Greco's Parent Book    Mediation and Counseling Parenting Book

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Is your relationship failing?

Highlights from our Radio Podcast: Dana and Don discussed  "What are the signs in a failing relationship?"   Lack of respect or condescending, sometimes you may think his or her sarcasm is their humor, unfortunately, sarcasm is passive hostility, listen next time to yourself or your partner, and address it, because chances are..it doesn't feel good. Undermining your partner in front of the children. Talking over your partner when they are trying to speak. These subtleties chip away at your relationship and eventually leaves the receiver bitter, hurt and disconnected.     The giver hopefully realizes he or she has unresolved complaints but cannot address them.     Both of you need to speak up, calmly and lovingly.  Speak now because the relationship may be in a free fall.  Each of you has the power to take that one step towards recovery.  Have the courage and be the brave one to put yourself out there.    Listen to the Recorded Show       We are listening and here to help, Dana and Don OUR WAR ON DIVORCE   We are providing the tools and techniques to keep your relationship from heading down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others. We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path. Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.  Soul mates are made and not found.    Learn More About What We Do: Divorce Mediators Our non-profit organization as Family Advocates "HappyToday, Divorced Tomorrow" Book "Happy Today, Divorced Tomorrow" Facebook Group Discussions Dana's Individual and Couple's Counseling Dana Greco's Parent Book    Mediation and Counseling Parenting Book

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Do you know if your partner is committed to your relationship?

Highlights from our Radio Podcast: Dana and Don discussed  "How do You Know your Partner is Committed" What's the difference between Exclusive and Committed relationships?   What are the signs of the exclusive what are the signs of a committed.   We used examples of couples and illustrated what are typical scenarios to these stages of the relationship.   Maybe he is not committed and she is  or the other way around? What to do then, And lastly what makes a healthy relationship?   Tune in and learn and make your relationship the best it can be. Listen to how you can avoid this or what to do if you have been going through years of this in your relationship or marriage.      Listen To Our Radio Podcast      We apologize that our email last night should have had a different link to the radio podcast for "EGO in the Relationship".  Click here    We are listening and here to help, Dana and Don     OUR WAR ON DIVORCE    We encourage and support your relationship to help you not head down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others.  We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path.  Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.     Learn more about what we do: Divorce Mediators  Our non-profit organization as Family Advocates "HappyToday, Divorced Tomorrow" Book "Happy Today, Divorced Tomorrow" Facebook Group Discussions Dana's Individual and Couple's Counseling Dana Greco's Parent Book

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Is your EGO Getting in the way?

Highlights from our Radio Podcast: How does ego play a role in relationship?          Sharing your heart with someone takes putting your EGO away.  With EGO your walls go up.  When relationships are at risk so is your heart and that's when you or your partner retract.                  One couple as an example: married twenty years, he is unhappy about his job and she is not sure why he is unhappy but he doesn't talk to her.  He fears he may be judged or criticized once again.  However in her head she feels rejected and thinks he is deliberately avoiding her, feeling unloved.                        She puts a wall up and he can't get through and he puts his wall up.  Two EGOs have sabotaged a once happy marriage.               Listen to how you can avoid this or what to do if you have been going through years of this in your relationship or marriage.         Listen To Our Radio Podcast About This Subject    We are listening and here to help, Dana and Don     OUR WAR ON DIVORCE    We encourage and support your relationship to help you not head down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others.  We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path.  Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.     Learn more about what we do: Divorce Mediators  Our non-profit organization as Family Advocates "HappyToday, Divorced Tomorrow" Book "Happy Today, Divorced Tomorrow" Facebook Group Discussions Dana's Individual and Couple's Counseling Dana Greco's Parent Book

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Does Sex Matter? ...For Women

Highlights from our Radio Podcast "Happy Today Divorced Tomorrow?" We asked the question "Does Sex Matter? for women". A woman takes longer than a man to be fully engaged.  A lot of this is emotional and mental.   A woman needs to be in good spirits, happy, emotionally connected to her man and romanced.    You could say that all the planets have to be aligned and if one planet goes off course, you need to start the process all over again.    Make sure as a man you ensure you are meeting her needs.  Romancing her, giving her emotional support, talking to her and caressing her.  Get to know her needs and you will get your needs met.    Listen To Our Radio Podcast About This Subject    With the Warmest Regards, Dana and Don     OUR WAR ON DIVORCE    We encourage and support your relationship to help you not head down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others.  We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path.  Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.     Learn more about what we do: Divorce Mediators  Our non-profit organization as Family Advocates "HappyToday, Divorced Tomorrow" Book "Happy Today, Divorced Tomorrow" Facebook Group Discussions Dana's Individual and Couple's Counseling Dana Greco's Parent Book

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