Friday, July 11, 2014

What Does Trust Really Mean?

 

Breaking Down T-R-U-S-T

 

As a component of #ConsciousCoupling you must know what the basis of trust really is. In fact, we've developed a way to break it down into 5 parts - T, R, U, S, & T.


The
T
stands for

time

. A relationship doesn't just start; it takes a process to begin a serious and trustworthy relationship. You get to know each other, the good and the bad, and slowly begin to trust each other and continue doing so providing your partner doesn't give you reason not to. Additionally, this means that you must devote time to building and strengthening the relationship.

The
R
stands for

reliability

. A big part of #ConsciousCoupling is being aware of the fact that a relationship is meant to grow with the help of both people. If one of you does not feel like the other is there for you to lean on them when you need it then the relationship isn't reliable.

The
U
stands for

understanding.

This part goes hand in hand with unconditional love - the kind of love ideal in a strong relationship. This type of love ensures that if your partner has a trait about them that you don't like that you can look past that and understand that it is just part of them. You must be able to accept each other's flaws to get anywhere in your relationship.

The
S
stands for

sacrifice.

Relationships are about sacrifice and that is no secret. Relationships in which you each sacrifice something for the good of the relationship, such as one person giving up going out multiple nights a week to spend more time with their partner, are the ones in which a higher, stronger level of trust develops.

The final part, the
T
stands for

thankfulness

. You must be thankful for the love of your partner, you can't take it for granted. Your partner is not obligated to stay by your side through everything or to love you forever, but if you trust them and they trust you then they will do those things because they desire to. You need to recognize each other's efforts to keeping the relationship strong.By thinking and acting out these steps you can trust that your relationship will be built on trust. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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We are providing the tools and techniques to keep your relationship from heading down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others. We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path. Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.  Soul mates are made and not found.

 

 

  

 

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Monday, July 7, 2014

Do You Know the Difference Between Trust & Love?

 

Love Versus Trust

 

 

In every successful relationship, there is love and trust. But which is more important? #ConsciousCoupling believes that trust is more important because how can you love someone you trust? And how can you continue loving someone once the trust between the two of you has been broken? Love doesn't have an obligation to be reciprocated, but trust does.

 

It is very possible to love someone who does not love you back, whether or not the love was never reciprocated or is no longer reciprocated. Someone doesn't necessarily have to act in a certain way for you to love him or her, no matter what the type of love is. Take a pair of sisters for example who always fight and don't trust each other - there is still a sisterly love between them that won't ever break. If you do however love someone who feels the same way about you then consider yourself lucky, it's a wonderful feeling.

 

Trust on the other hand brings a feeling that it must be reciprocated. #ConsciousCoupling feels that a relationship can't function properly without a level of trust. If you feel that you're worried for your partner to be without you for a night or a few days because they'll do something they wouldn't do in front of you then you clearly do not trust them. If you don't trust your partner, there is no reason for you to stay in the relationship.

 

So now it's time to differentiate the types of relationships that come from these feelings. #ConsciousCoupling wants you to remember that loving someone whom you trust is almost always more advisable than trusting someone whom you love. The latter can easily lead to disaster because your love for your partner can cloud your judgment and make something such as infidelity seem unimportant because your partner is "sorry and didn't mean it." However, loving someone whom you trust will lead to a successful relationship because you already feel completely confident in that person and how they will treat you.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Friday, July 4, 2014

How To Make Love & Money Co-Exist Successfully

 

Balancing Money & Love IS Possible!

 

 

 

Now that #ConsciousCoupling has helped you to learn the importance of financial planning, we're here to help you make love and money co-exist successfully.

 

The first and most important factor is trust. You need to trust that your partner is going to be responsible with his or her money, and the money that you share. You need to know their money-management skills and they need to know yours. Next comes communication; once you trust that your partner will tell you what they are spending their money on you can communicate about what is necessary to buy and what is not. This is easier said than done since money is very often tied to our emotions and therefore can be hard to talk about with anyone.

 

Honesty, comprehension, and compatibility are next in line when dealing with money and love. While some people think infidelity only refers to a sexual affair #ConsciousCoupling reminds you of the term "financial infidelity". This can refer to lying about spending your money on anything as small as a lunch to something as big as a pair of three thousand dollar shoes; it is anything that you don't tell your partner that you spent money on, especially if it's shared money. Comprehension refers to actually knowing how much money it is going to take to do certain things, such as buying a house. Yes you can both see a house and both love it and decide that is the house for you but you need to be able to comprehend how you are going to pay for it, how much it is going to cost, how much money you will need to furnish it, and how much money in loans you might need. Compatibility is key when it comes to spending money. Love at first sight exists but doesn't always last. Take two people who fall in love young but come from different backgrounds - one grew up having everything handed to them and the other had to work to get the life they wanted. While you're still casually dating this doesn't cause that much of a problem but when the relationship gets serious and you want to move in together it's very unlikely that your money spending habits will be able to co-exist and the relationship is doomed.

 
Last but not least #ConsciousCoupling reminds you that you MUST have a sense of independence when it comes to a financial plan. You can't just assume that you'll fall in love, get married, and be covered for the rest of your life. Both people in a relationship should have their own retirement fund, checking account, and savings account. Life isn't always simple and it's important to remember that when thinking about your financial future. 
 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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We are providing the tools and techniques to keep your relationship from heading down the path of divorce. Everything about your relationship takes work, some things more than others. We are not trying to stop your divorce if you have made the decision to do so, we are trying to make you aware of the things that would drive you and your partner down that path. Get the professional help your relationship deserves. Surprise yourself in finding the true happiness that you both deserve.  Soul mates are made and not found.

 

 

  

 

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